19 July 2013
~Ethan's Family Birthday Party~
18 July 2013
~Ethan's 5th Birthday Party!~
I, as usual, was the freak-a-zoid running around trying to make sure it was perfect. Such a ridiculous habit! But I just want it to be memorable for him...anyhow I digress. This year Ethan wanted a Thomas the Tank Engine party. Since we were in the middle of crazy (will link to post in a few days) I decided to just spend a bit of money to buy everything for the party. I bought it online (I LOVE online shopping, less crowds, better selection) I went to Etsy again for the party invite...I loved it! On a side note I really need to take a photoshop class...it all arrived in time and looked awesome! I made the cake myself and had Randy make the railway sign for the front step. The cake took a painstaking 3 hours to do...but it looked wicked awesome and Ethan still talks about it!
We had a blast at the party and all his little guests did as well! The proof is in the pictures! I did train stops to coordinate the day. Stop#1 was Pin the Funnel on Thomas, Stop#2 was Pinata Fun Stop #3 was Fueling Station and Stop #4 was Train Playtime in the basement. Here is the railroad crossing sign Randy
made...I forgot to get a picture of it on the front step!
My little conductor put on his hat and got ready to welcome his guests!
The first thing they had to do was bring their 'ticket' and get their picture with Thomas and Percy! Ignore the ghetto grey on the card, it of course, was not there when it was given out. It is there however to prevent you from stalking me...teehee.
Each little guest got their picture taken with Percy and Thomas...
Playtime stop! The little boys had a blast playing with Ethan's trains! They probably got more play that day than they have in months!
The Thomas Cake! It was a labor of love I tell you...it actually wasn't as hard to do as it looks...thank goodness for the template!
The little boys had a great time discussing which part of Thomas they were going to eat...I was shocked at how adept they all were in all the Thomas terminology!
Ethan got some great gifts from his friends. All were very thoughtful and reflective of Ethan's interests...he even got a $35 Visa gift card and a $15 Itunes card...which sent him over the moon! You CAN buy your way into my kids heart with an Itunes Gift Card! It was all fantastic and I know Ethan loved the entire day...that made all the running worth it!
26 February 2013
~One Month Flew By!!!~
WOW! One month ago little Carter Michael entered our lives…where did the time go? We have been blessed with the easiest baby! He pretty much eats and sleeps on a 2-3 hour cycle. He’s had a few gassy episodes but a little bit of Ovol hasn’t quickly helped. He has an amazingly strong neck and has been able to lift his head up since he was born, now he can lift his head up and turn it while holding it. He loves tummy time with Mom and Dad, hates his car seat unless the car is moving and enjoys time in his bouncy seat. He is mostly in love with Mommy but will sometimes settle for Dad. He sleeps on his side, just like Mom and rolls from side to side on his own. He has such a serious little man look to him, and is going to be a much bigger boy than his brother! He had his check up appt with our family Doctor on Friday and has already gained 2 lbs and grown 2 inches! He is already into some 3 month clothes too!
He HATES cold wipes on his bum and will forever love Daddy’s boss Gary and his girlfriend Kelly for getting us a wipes warmer. Mom is far to cheap for that! He snorts like a little pig when he’s hungry and lets you know…when Carter is hungry, he is HUNGRY NOW! He is being exclusively breastfed right now and has no problems with it and is not hard on Mom…unless he wants to nurse non-stop. Then Mom gets a bit frustrated and needs to have some space! He has a bit of reflux that I’m still trying to sort out…he can’t be sat up right away after eating, he’ll throw everything up. The nurse at the hospital said that his stomach flap was probably just a bit immature and closes too fast. It isn’t affecting him that I can tell but I suspect it may contribute to the gas since he doesn’t always burp after every feed.
We had an ultrasound on his hip on Monday, he may have hip dysplasia and need to wear a brace. I googled it and let me tell you, it doesn’t look like fun! 6 weeks of keeping his knee parallel to his hip in a brace that wraps over his shoulders. It isn’t life threatening however so I’m just rolling with it!
Big brother Ethan is treating him well, so far he pretty much ignores him. He is acting out a bit however and I don’t think I’m dealing with it the best. I have been very exasperated by some of the things he does to act out and haven’t responded well…I recognize it though and am trying to deal with it. We’ve been making sure to spend time separate with him doing fun things so he doesn’t feel abandoned. Plus adding fun things to his day that we can do since Mom is not working.
So one month of me being a Mom to two little boys and so far, so good. I’m just starting to get some routine to my day so that I’m not wearing sweat pants, dirty shirts and have unwashed hair and unbrushed teeth in the car pool lane at school. Plus I need to have a feeling of getting things done so I have a wonderful new app on my Ipad called Wunderlist and I have all kinds of to do lists in it so I can check things off my list! I’m feeling a bit bottled up at home but as Carter starts to get a bit of a schedule I have lots of fun things planned for us! Big brother Ethan has Piano class on Saturdays until May, Pre-school M-Thurs, swimming for March/April on Sundays, Soccer starting April-July on Sat, and a reading program at the library from April-end of June on Friday mornings. Carter and I are going to go walking at the Multiplex M-Thurs after we drop Ethan off a school, a Mommy and baby Yoga class on Tuesdays and lunch with a friend on Thursdays. On Fridays’ we’ll head to the library with Ethan for fresh books and Sat/Sun we hang out with Dad and probably go swimming. I want to keep busy but also keep a slow enough pace that I can enjoy all my time with my guys before the craziness of working full time with them comes back. For now we’re playing it by ear and having fun…I still can’t believe that I have two little boys…this life is going to be adventure!!!
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16 February 2013
~My Boys!~
15 February 2013
~Welcome to the World Carter Michael!~
How did we get to that moment? Stick around and read more if you want to hear his birth story. (I promise nothing tmi).
For the week prior to Carter's birth I had a few false starts, contractions that would start and stop and get me thinking that today was the day. Poor Randy was sick of me calling him at work and saying I think it's time! When I woke up on Monday morning and went to the washroom I *knew* it was the day. (Told you I would spare the gory details). The contractions started at 8:30am. They were mild and I carried on as normal around the house. At 10am I let Randy know it was definitely time to pack it up and head home from work and I hopped in the shower. He got home, showered and started loading our hospital bags and Ethan's overnight bag in the truck. He went downstairs to get something and let out a war whoop, Ethan had set up a 'washing station' for his trains and had virtually flooded the whole basement.(On our new flooring to boot). So a slight delay while they mopped up the mess and we were off to drop Ethan off at daycare.
We made it to the hospital around 1pm and I was sent to OB Triage where they hooked me up and tracked my contractions, I was having them about every 3-5 minutes. So she checked me and I was only dilated 3-4cm. I was shocked, I had been dilated 3cm for two weeks already, the all morning contractions didn't do much for me obviously. The nurse tells us to get up and start walking around to get it moving along. So I walked, and walked, and walked; for 2 hours! The contractions were getting pretty painful with me having to stop walking with every one and grab the wall rail. We headed back after 2 hours to see where we were at...no change. What?!?! I almost cried. So go home or keep walking...I didn't want to go home, I was already there and obviously it was going to happen that day. I asked about inducing me as I was scheduled to be induced the next morning anyhow. Nope, not happening. So we walked for another 2 hours and had supper before going back again to be checked. The contractions were VERY painful at this point. I actually scared some guy in a hallway when a particularly tough one hit me and my hip snapped out and I almost fell in the hallway. Randy caught me and braced me against the wall but the guy came running thinking I was dying or something...poor guy!
So we head back to triage at 6:30pm and guess what? Now I'm at 4-5...whoopee...so again I ask to be induced and again they decline. I asked for my OBGYN to be called but they wouldn't because there was an on call OB to take me. On a side note, this is my most frustrating part of delivering a baby in Grande Prairie, you don't get your OB for delivery, you get whoever is there and on call. So again she tells us go home or keep walking here. By this time I'm exhausted and Randy is frustrated so he convinces me to go home. I really, really didn't want to...I was having monster painful contractions but I went. I popped a Tylenol when I got home and crashed on the couch; I even snuck in a cat nap!
At 9:30 I got up off the couch to use the washroom and *knew* we needed to get going to the hospital. We arrived and I was rocking some seriously painful contractions that on a scale of 10 were an 8. Into triage we go again and guess what? I was 6cm..what the heck! She said my waters were bulging though so they gowned me up and sent me to delivery.
The delivery nurses asked me what I wanted for pain and I asked for an epidural and refused all narcotics (morphine etc). They make me feel stoned and I didn't want that. So she heads out to call the Dr and person for the epidural and to prep to give me an IV. She comes back a couple minutes later and tells me my worst nightmare...no epidural. The person that gives it was gone for the day and wouldn't make it back in time so the Dr refused to call them back. They offer me phentenol (sp?) and I agree, the pain was unbearable. So she tries to start the IV and misses, fml! So the Dr comes in, breaks my water and proceeds to try to get the IV. He had Randy help him hold my arm and put pressure on the other IV spot. I have almost perfect finger mark bruises on my wrist as a result...

Apparently it's been awhile since the Dr put in an IV because a) it took like 10 mins, b) he spewed my blood all over the delivery room when he screwed up the first try. So by the time he to the stupid IV in I was screaming in pain and begging for drugs and then felt the need to push. So what does the Dr do? He crossed his arms on his chest and said 'well then push, no time for the drugs now'. I died inside at that moment...there was no turning back now.
I won't lie. It was the most excruciatingly painful thing I have ever felt and I hope to NEVER feel that kind of pain ever again. Thankfully I only endured about 30 mins of active labor and he was delivered in 3 pushes in under a minute.
The Dr let Randy announce that it was a boy and he was immediately placed on my bare chest. They no longer do suction at all or take baby away to be weighed etc right away unless you want. I wanted tummy time right away and to be able to breast feed right there. 10 fingers, 10 toes and everything else just right, Carter Michael came into this world at 10:20pm, Jan 28th weighing 7lbs 6oz and 20 inches long. A full head of dark hair; no doubt the cause of my endless heartburn in the pregnancy!
We stayed in the hospital till the 30th before being able to go home. He was checked out by Dr Odaibo who was Ethan's pedeatrician after his surgery. He did find that one of Carter's hips may be out so we are scheduled for an ultrasound at he end of Feb to see. If it is he will need to wear a leg brace for around 6 weeks to correct it and prevent a permanent limp. I'm not worried at all about it, it isn't life threatening so I can handle it!
It's been almost three weeks now since his birth and we're getting to know each other. He likes chest time with both Mom and Dad and has trouble sleeping between 10pm to 3am. He thinks it's party time! He is gaining weight like a champ and we're pretty confident he is going to be a very active, rough little boy...not at all like Ethan. One thing's for sure, there will never be a dull day in this house with 2 little boys running around! Here are my cute little guys!
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25 January 2013
~Sunny Winter Day Snow Art!~
Ethan and I couldn’t resist going outside today! The sun was shining and it was unseasonably warm out, in the pluses! He wasn’t too keen on the idea of going out, he didn’t know what to do…admittedly there isn’t much to do in our backyard, especially in the winter and when Mom isn’t up to jumping around in the snow with him because she’s a day away from the due date with baby #2!
So I decided to put some of the knowledge of fun things for kids to do that I have collected in my travels and actually DO one of them! So I went around the house and found a few things to use to fill with colored water. I used an old spray bottle, empty ketchup and mustard squeeze bottles for the RV, and a Gatorade bottle with a hole punched through the lid. I used just ordinary food coloring and water, filled the bottles and out we went.
He started off slow…not really getting into the swing of what he could do with them. Finally he started using them to color “tracks” around the backyard and ‘wash’ the fence and chairs. It was a gorgeous day outside, sun shining and so warm! I hauled a folding chair outside and my camera and soaked up some Vitamin D while he played. It was the most fun I’ve had in weeks! Our backyard looks like it’s been attacked and is a colorful blend of yellow, blue, red and green. We went through 2 fills of the bottles and I had a hard time convincing him to stop after 2 hours. He made me promise that we would do it again which I totally agreed to! I don’t know if we’ll get that warm of weather again for awhile though, it was glorious!
Here are some pictures of the day…it was nice to take out my SLR and snap some pictures, it’s been awhile since I’ve pulled it out!
24 January 2013
~Catch up From Christmas Post!~
Wow, I totally missed doing a post from our Christmas! I can’t believe it. Anyhow, we had a great Christmas season, we went to the Festival of Trees Teddy Bears Breakfast with our friends The Smiths and The Dombroskies. It was a fun time however a bit complicated as we arrived late and couldn’t get a table to sit altogether. Here are some pictures from the day!
We had a great time decorating the tree! I bought lots and lots of new little things for it this year…I think it was my favorite so far!
Randy and Ethan had their Annual Gingerbread House decorating Day! This year they went ‘untraditional’ and made an Angry Birds camp! Ethan had seen an Angry Birds design at the Festival of Trees and had his heart set on buying it…we didn’t bid on it as it was already over $200 and it was a bit rich for my blood. Instead I suggested to Randy that they make their own…I think they did a great job, what do you think?
We had a fun time at Ethan’s Christmas concert this season! We arrived a bit close to the time though and ended up in the VERY back of the gym. I had only brought my one lens so we didn’t get very good pictures being so far back…it was a very cute performance though and when the newsletter came out in January our little man was featured prominently in many of the pictures singing his little heart out! We were bursting with pride!
Our Christmas Day was just the three of us…we had a great quiet day at home. We started out with our stockings of course and then quickly dove into our presents! We loved watching Ethan open his presents as usual, lots of “Wows” and “Awesome” coming from his camp! We had alot of fun wrapping his trains up….we bought him 90 assorted Thomas trains and freight cars…they were (thankfully) the highlight of the day and he still plays with his trains more than he did before!
It was a nice Christmas. We were sad that we didn’t have any family here with us and that we couldn’t travel but it was nice to spend the time just the three of us before we add a new baby to the mix. Randy had almost 2 weeks off and it was wonderful for all of us to have that uninterrupted time together. It’s been awhile! We are hoping to travel home next Christmas to spend it with family and share baby’s first Christmas surrounded with them.
11 January 2013
~Pregnancy 37wk 5 days~
Well I’ve made it this far! I never believed it would happen, neither did the Dr frankly. We’re both glad for it, the longer the baby waits, the better for the overall development! I am in a foreign land though, I never went this far with Ethan so I’m experiencing ‘new’ things. Not my most favorite experiences but new things. Ie. The inability to roll or move in bed without excruciating pain in my pelvis; lack of any energy at all after two minutes of engaging into any activity; the actual consideration of getting Depends because I’ve almost had 3 accidents this week… But there are more enjoyable things too…I can see when baby makes moves, there is definitely a healthy, active baby coming. I am enjoying naps in my lazy boy. I’m not usually a nap kind of person. My mood has been good, no terrible, horrific hormones raging.
It’s been tough running Ethan to and from school every day, he only goes for 2.5 hrs and its in the middle of the day so you always feel like you are coming or going from school or planning to get there. I am not enjoying the task at all. I foresee me enjoying it significantly less when baby is here too. There is no way around it though, he needs to go to school :)
I am hopefully that I will bounce back after having baby quite quickly and not suffer through the problems I did with Ethan. I had massive sciatic back problems and ended up dragging my leg around for almost a month, it was not pretty! This time I will likely look for a chiropractor or go for a massage if it happens.
I’m looking forward to experiencing a ‘normal’ baby though. After all the uncertainties and worry associated with this pregnancy and us having another baby I am finally feeling like everything will be okay. Both Randy and I are excited to experience bringing a newborn home from the hospital right away. He’s taking a week off with us and will help with driving Ethan to and from school for awhile till baby and I get our ‘feet’ under us. I’m uncertain at this point if any of my family are coming up…we’ll see. We are open to visitors!
I go back to the Dr next week of course. At that time we’ll talk about next steps if baby doesn’t make their own arrival plan. I have been having contractions and lots of downward pressure so I don’t think there will be any issues with baby coming on their own but you never know. As much as I’m ready to meet our little one and be done with being pregnant I’m still being patient. I can’t wait to find out if it’s a boy or girl though!
9 December 2012
~Pregnancy Week 33~
I can’t believe I’m already at week 33 of this pregnancy. It felt like it took forever to get over the Week 24 mark and now it’s flying by! I have one more week of work then my leave begins. I am beyond ready!
I have bi-weekly appointments with my Dr now and the latest appointment showed baby happily stowed head down and looking great. We’ve had so many ultrasounds and tests throughout that I am starting to release some of the worry that something will be wrong with baby. It’s weighed so heavily on my mind…its like waiting for the other shoe to drop. I know I will love baby no matter what and we will adjust our life to make anything work but I so just want a healthy baby to bring home like most other people. Anyhow we will see in a few weeks…
The last few weeks of the pregnancy have been fairly uneventful. I am pretty uncomfortable right now, my pelvis feels like its splitting into pieces with every step. I would compare it to feeling like you are getting kicked between the legs with every step. It doesn’t help that I keep slipping on the ice…I did the splits this week, that was not fun! It’s hard to get up from a low position now, my stomach muscles are non-existent now. I’m starting to really show now although I saw my family Dr this week and he couldn’t tell I was pregnant, it was kind of funny and took me back to the first time I met him. Of course I have the usual aches and pains that come along with pregnancy…my back, my knees…even though I’m already a bigger person the added weight does a number to my body. I still haven’t gained much, I’m not exactly sure but possibly around 15lbs now. I’m very happy about it as I really didn’t want to come out of the pregnancy with any added weight, I already have enough to get rid of, LOL!
Ethan is all about the baby right now, he likes to tell people that there is a baby in Mommy’s tummy and it’s going to ‘pop’ out. He’s very careful around baby and even came up the other day and planted a kiss on my tummy for the baby. I’ve let him feel when the baby is kicking but so far I don’t think he gets that part of it. Also he is very vocal on his choices for names…he does not like the boy name we’ve picked out. I don’t even know if Randy and I have finalized the boy name yet if it is a boy, I need to talk to him about that one I guess :) Ethan sways back and forth on his choice for boy or girl, overall he’s pretty excited about it all. I do think we’re going to have problems with him accepting a change to his home environment though, he’s used to making as much noise as he wants and playing throughout the house. I’ve started explaining to him that we need to be quiet when baby is sleeping and we’ve watched Calliou shows where he has to be quiet because Rosie is sleeping and have talked about it.
The Dr doesn’t think I’ll make it to full term, we’re hoping to make it into January at least. My official due date is January 26th so if baby arrives early like Ethan we may have a New Years Eve baby. Wouldn’t that be crazy! I was told at work that if I have the first Canadian baby of the year that there are awesome gifts and perks etc that you get…I wouldn’t complain about that! I just am hoping to clear Christmas so that I can have a separation between the holiday and baby’s birthday. But time will tell!
Baby’s room is finally coming together. Just yesterday Randy put the carpet and molding in. Today I need to touch up paint the walls and around the closet frame. The door needs to go on then we can set up all the furniture. It’s all in the garage waiting, I can’t wait to get it unpacked and see how it looks. Then I need to do some wall art etc and wait to find out if we are bringing home a boy or a girl to finalize the decor. If it’s a girl there will be a flurry of shopping happening to make it a little girl room! If it’s a little boy I already have the cutest nursery set. Needless to say, pictures will come forth!
So follow us on the last leg of this pregnancy as we get ready to add another little one to our family to make it complete. We’re in the final chapter of this year long journey to have a baby…I can’t wait to hold baby in my arms and get to know this little one bouncing inside of me!
12 November 2012
~The Rogers-Grounds 2nd Annual Christmas Party!~
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4 August 2012
~Summer Vacation 2012–Week 1~
What a wonderful vacation we had this summer! We made it to the LAKE! We enjoyed a great visit with my best friend of almost 20 years, Melissa and her son Caleb for the first week. It was a busy, active week and we crammed in a lot of activities.
We got to the campground on the Sunday night and got all settled in and had a campfire. On Monday we went into the nearby town of Chetwynd and checked out the visitor centre, wood carvings and had lunch from a food truck called “Everybody Loves Raymond”. The remainder of our day was filled with walking around the lake, playing at the park and relaxing at the campsite.
On Tuesday we headed to Tumbler Ridge, the place of dinosaurs and waterfalls! We ended up doing a 2km hike in the rain to see the dinosaur tracks…it was not fun for pregnant, out of shape me. Ethan looked so cute putting his hands into the dinosaur prints in the creek bed!
We stopped at Gwillim Lake on our way back to our lake…it was really nice and we took some pictures with the kids there.
Melissa and the boys had evenings of playing catch while we were there. We had stopped at Value Village in Grande Prairie before heading out and bought a ball glove for Melissa so she could play with Caleb. While we were there I found one almost the perfect size for Ethan so I grabbed it for him. Apparently my son is a natural at playing catch. To my knowledge he has never worn a ball glove before. He put it on and knew what to do like he was on old pro though! These pictures don’t do justice to how cute he was playing catch with them!
On Wednesday we headed to the WAC Bennett Dam. Randy, Ethan and I had been the year before so we knew what to expect. However we heard that the spillway was open and were so excited to see that! It has only been open 9 times in the last almost 50 years and we were going to get to see it! I was so excited!
It’s hard to grasp how big that spill waterfall is from the pictures…it was enormous! We ended up coming back up the following weekend to the dam with Randy just so he could see it…it truly was something to remember!
The week with Melissa and Caleb drew to a close on Thursday when they left to spend the night at our house in GP. Caleb had to be in St Paul, AB on Friday for provincial soccer tournaments. They decided to break their trip up as it was a long drive there.
After they left Ethan and I didn’t have a vehicle to tour anywhere…which I was very happy about! I was tired out from all the running and just wanted to relax at the campsite. So Ethan and I played in the lake, went to the play park, relaxed at the RV and just generally chilled out. Randy came up on the weekend to join us and our friends Trudy, Wes and their daughter Sydney came on Saturday with Trudy’s parents.
On Sunday we headed home for Grande Prairie as we had to take Randy back to work on Monday. We went via the Dam and through Fort St John so we could stop for some Vietnamese food at our favourite restaurant there. It’s a beautiful drive with some very scenic river views on the way to Fort St John. These pictures are from one of our favourite look out spots on the drive. The day was kind of hazy but you get the idea…the canola crops are bright yellow and there are fields of wildflowers everywhere!
Ethan and I stayed in Grande Prairie until Tuesday before heading back to the lake. We relaxed on our last week…other than going to the pool we stayed close to the campsite and just played and read books. I was happy to have read like 9 books in the two weeks!
Keep posted for Part 2 of our Vacation!
































