~One Month Flew By!!!~

WOW!  One month ago little Carter Michael entered our lives…where did the time go?  We have been blessed with the easiest baby!  He pretty much eats and sleeps on a 2-3 hour cycle.  He’s had a few gassy episodes but a little bit of Ovol hasn’t quickly helped.  He has an amazingly strong neck and has been able to lift his head up since he was born, now he can lift his head up and turn it while holding it.  He loves tummy time with Mom and Dad, hates his car seat unless the car is moving and enjoys time in his bouncy seat.  He is mostly in love with Mommy but will sometimes settle for Dad.  He sleeps on his side, just like Mom and rolls from side to side on his own.  He has such a serious little man look to him, and is going to be a much bigger boy than his brother!  He had his check up appt with our family Doctor on Friday and has already gained 2 lbs and grown 2 inches!  He is already into some 3 month clothes too! 

He HATES cold wipes on his bum and will forever love Daddy’s boss Gary and his girlfriend Kelly for getting us a wipes warmer.  Mom is far to cheap for that!  He snorts like a little pig when he’s hungry and lets you know…when Carter is hungry, he is HUNGRY NOW!  He is being exclusively breastfed right now and has no problems with it and is not hard on Mom…unless he wants to nurse non-stop.  Then Mom gets a bit frustrated and needs to have some space!  He has a bit of reflux that I’m still trying to sort out…he can’t be sat up right away after eating, he’ll throw everything up.  The nurse at the hospital said that his stomach flap was probably just a bit immature and closes too fast.  It isn’t affecting him that I can tell but I suspect it may contribute to the gas since he doesn’t always burp after every feed. 

We had an ultrasound on his hip on Monday, he may have hip dysplasia and need to wear a brace.  I googled it and let me tell you, it doesn’t look like fun!  6 weeks of keeping his knee parallel to his hip in a brace that wraps over his shoulders.  It isn’t life threatening however so I’m just rolling with it! 

Big brother Ethan is treating him well, so far he pretty much ignores him.  He is acting out a bit however and I don’t think I’m dealing with it the best.  I have been very exasperated by some of the things he does to act out and haven’t responded well…I recognize it though and am trying to deal with it. We’ve been making sure to spend time separate with him doing fun things so he doesn’t feel abandoned.  Plus adding fun things to his day that we can do since Mom is not working. 

So one month of me being a Mom to two little boys and so far, so good.  I’m just starting to get some routine to my day so that I’m not wearing sweat pants, dirty shirts and have unwashed hair and unbrushed teeth in the car pool lane at school.  Plus I need to have a feeling of getting things done so I have a wonderful new app on my Ipad called Wunderlist and I have all kinds of to do lists in it so I can check things off my list!  I’m feeling a bit bottled up at home but as Carter starts to get a bit of a schedule I have lots of fun things planned for us!  Big brother Ethan has Piano class on Saturdays until May, Pre-school M-Thurs, swimming for March/April on Sundays, Soccer starting April-July on Sat, and a reading program at the library from April-end of June on Friday mornings.  Carter and I are going to go walking at the Multiplex M-Thurs after we drop Ethan off a school, a Mommy and baby Yoga class on Tuesdays and lunch with a friend on Thursdays.  On Fridays’ we’ll head to the library with Ethan for fresh books and Sat/Sun we hang out with Dad and probably go swimming.  I want to keep busy but also keep a slow enough pace that I can enjoy all my time with my guys before the craziness of working full time with them comes back.  For now we’re playing it by ear and having fun…I still can’t believe that I have two little boys…this life is going to be adventure!!! 

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~Welcome to the World Carter Michael!~

On January 28th at 10:20pm we welcomed our precious new son Carter Michael into the world. Hearts were crushed, smiles flew around the room, and an enormous sigh of relief was breathed by both Randy and I simultaneously. A.healthy.baby.

How did we get to that moment? Stick around and read more if you want to hear his birth story. (I promise nothing tmi).

For the week prior to Carter's birth I had a few false starts, contractions that would start and stop and get me thinking that today was the day. Poor Randy was sick of me calling him at work and saying I think it's time! When I woke up on Monday morning and went to the washroom I *knew* it was the day. (Told you I would spare the gory details). The contractions started at 8:30am. They were mild and I carried on as normal around the house. At 10am I let Randy know it was definitely time to pack it up and head home from work and I hopped in the shower. He got home, showered and started loading our hospital bags and Ethan's overnight bag in the truck. He went downstairs to get something and let out a war whoop, Ethan had set up a 'washing station' for his trains and had virtually flooded the whole basement.(On our new flooring to boot). So a slight delay while they mopped up the mess and we were off to drop Ethan off at daycare.

We made it to the hospital around 1pm and I was sent to OB Triage where they hooked me up and tracked my contractions, I was having them about every 3-5 minutes. So she checked me and I was only dilated 3-4cm. I was shocked, I had been dilated 3cm for two weeks already, the all morning contractions didn't do much for me obviously. The nurse tells us to get up and start walking around to get it moving along. So I walked, and walked, and walked; for 2 hours! The contractions were getting pretty painful with me having to stop walking with every one and grab the wall rail. We headed back after 2 hours to see where we were at...no change. What?!?! I almost cried. So go home or keep walking...I didn't want to go home, I was already there and obviously it was going to happen that day. I asked about inducing me as I was scheduled to be induced the next morning anyhow. Nope, not happening. So we walked for another 2 hours and had supper before going back again to be checked. The contractions were VERY painful at this point. I actually scared some guy in a hallway when a particularly tough one hit me and my hip snapped out and I almost fell in the hallway. Randy caught me and braced me against the wall but the guy came running thinking I was dying or something...poor guy!
So we head back to triage at 6:30pm and guess what? Now I'm at 4-5...whoopee...so again I ask to be induced and again they decline. I asked for my OBGYN to be called but they wouldn't because there was an on call OB to take me. On a side note, this is my most frustrating part of delivering a baby in Grande Prairie, you don't get your OB for delivery, you get whoever is there and on call. So again she tells us go home or keep walking here. By this time I'm exhausted and Randy is frustrated so he convinces me to go home. I really, really didn't want to...I was having monster painful contractions but I went. I popped a Tylenol when I got home and crashed on the couch; I even snuck in a cat nap!

At 9:30 I got up off the couch to use the washroom and *knew* we needed to get going to the hospital. We arrived and I was rocking some seriously painful contractions that on a scale of 10 were an 8. Into triage we go again and guess what? I was 6cm..what the heck! She said my waters were bulging though so they gowned me up and sent me to delivery.

The delivery nurses asked me what I wanted for pain and I asked for an epidural and refused all narcotics (morphine etc). They make me feel stoned and I didn't want that. So she heads out to call the Dr and person for the epidural and to prep to give me an IV. She comes back a couple minutes later and tells me my worst nightmare...no epidural. The person that gives it was gone for the day and wouldn't make it back in time so the Dr refused to call them back. They offer me phentenol (sp?) and I agree, the pain was unbearable. So she tries to start the IV and misses, fml! So the Dr comes in, breaks my water and proceeds to try to get the IV. He had Randy help him hold my arm and put pressure on the other IV spot. I have almost perfect finger mark bruises on my wrist as a result...





Apparently it's been awhile since the Dr put in an IV because a) it took like 10 mins, b) he spewed my blood all over the delivery room when he screwed up the first try. So by the time he to the stupid IV in I was screaming in pain and begging for drugs and then felt the need to push. So what does the Dr do? He crossed his arms on his chest and said 'well then push, no time for the drugs now'. I died inside at that moment...there was no turning back now.

I won't lie. It was the most excruciatingly painful thing I have ever felt and I hope to NEVER feel that kind of pain ever again. Thankfully I only endured about 30 mins of active labor and he was delivered in 3 pushes in under a minute.

The Dr let Randy announce that it was a boy and he was immediately placed on my bare chest. They no longer do suction at all or take baby away to be weighed etc right away unless you want. I wanted tummy time right away and to be able to breast feed right there. 10 fingers, 10 toes and everything else just right, Carter Michael came into this world at 10:20pm, Jan 28th weighing 7lbs 6oz and 20 inches long. A full head of dark hair; no doubt the cause of my endless heartburn in the pregnancy!

We stayed in the hospital till the 30th before being able to go home. He was checked out by Dr Odaibo who was Ethan's pedeatrician after his surgery. He did find that one of Carter's hips may be out so we are scheduled for an ultrasound at he end of Feb to see. If it is he will need to wear a leg brace for around 6 weeks to correct it and prevent a permanent limp. I'm not worried at all about it, it isn't life threatening so I can handle it!

It's been almost three weeks now since his birth and we're getting to know each other. He likes chest time with both Mom and Dad and has trouble sleeping between 10pm to 3am.  He thinks it's party time!  He is gaining weight like a champ and we're pretty confident he is going to be a very active, rough little boy...not at all like Ethan.  One thing's for sure, there will never be a dull day in this house with 2 little boys running around!  Here are my cute little guys!

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~Ethan’s First Piano Recital~

Wow, prouder parents couldn’t have been found yesterday…it was Ethan’s first piano recital and he did it perfectly!  We were admittedly a bit worried about the whole thing because he woke up with a nasty cough and a bit of mischief in everything he did.  He didn’t have a great time at Music Class in the morning…wasn’t listening, and was acting silly while they did a dress rehearsal.  He ended up losing the Ipad for the remainder of the day as a result.  Randy came home from class very frustrated with him. 

So we had a good couple of ‘talks’ and made him practice his piece a few more times and set some rewards for good behavior up. We got dressed up and off we went.  I won’t lie and say that he was the best behaved kid there but he wasn’t the worst.  He was a bit quiet and almost sulking for most of it.  I was disappointed…it wasn’t how I pictured it to go.  Once it got started though and he saw other kids he knew go up and perform he knew what he was doing.  When it was his turn to go up he went straight up to the microphone, said “My name is Ethan Grounds and I’m going to play Little Helper for you today”  just like we had practiced.  He went to the piano and carefully placed his hands, played his piece, got down off the chair bowed his head and came off the stage perfectly.  He wasn’t smiling or bubbly, more quiet and focused.  But he did it and we were so proud!  I won’t lie, I cried! (We’ll blame the pregnancy hormones).

So here are the pictures of his day…we got all dressed up in a new outfit complete with little dress shoes for the event!

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At the church where it was held they had a ‘real’ piano…I was a bit worried that it would throw him off since he plays on a small keyboard style piano at Music Class and a keyboard at home but he had no problems at all with it!  They did their group song first where all the kids in his class from the whole week got together and played a little song using instruments.

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Then when it was his turn he did his solo piece!  You can click on the pictures to open and see the complete album!

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Is that not the most freaking adorable thing ever?!?! 

They finished off the recital with the entire Music Class keyboarding students singing their good-bye song..he really likes this song!

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He got his reward…a trip to play at the Multiplex Jungle Gym area and Bugs & Cheese for supper from Boston Pizza.  It was a great day and we all had lots of fun!  His next one is in May sometime…I can’t wait!

~Pregnancy 37wk 5 days~

Well I’ve made it this far!  I never believed it would happen, neither did the Dr frankly.  We’re both glad for it, the longer the baby waits, the better for the overall development!  I am in a foreign land though, I never went this far with Ethan so I’m experiencing ‘new’ things.  Not my most favorite experiences but new things.  Ie.  The inability to roll or move in bed without excruciating pain in my pelvis;  lack of any energy at all after two minutes of engaging into any activity;  the actual consideration of getting Depends because I’ve almost had 3 accidents this week… But there are more enjoyable things too…I can see when baby makes moves, there is definitely a healthy, active baby coming.  I am enjoying naps in my lazy boy.  I’m not usually a nap kind of person.  My mood has been good, no terrible, horrific hormones raging.

It’s been tough running Ethan to and from school every day, he only goes for 2.5 hrs and its in the middle of the day so you always feel like you are coming or going from school or planning to get there.  I am not enjoying the task at all.  I foresee me enjoying it significantly less when baby is here too.  There is no way around it though, he needs to go to school :) 

I am hopefully that I will bounce back after having baby quite quickly and not suffer through the problems I did with Ethan.  I had massive sciatic back problems and ended up dragging my leg around for almost a month, it was not pretty!  This time I will likely look for a chiropractor or go for a massage if it happens. 

I’m looking forward to experiencing a ‘normal’ baby though.  After all the uncertainties and worry associated with this pregnancy and us having another baby I am finally feeling like everything will be okay.  Both Randy and I are excited to experience bringing a newborn home from the hospital right away.  He’s taking a week off with us and will help with driving Ethan to and from school for awhile till baby and I get our ‘feet’ under us.  I’m uncertain at this point if any of my family are coming up…we’ll see.  We are open to visitors!

I go back to the Dr next week of course.  At that time we’ll talk about next steps if baby doesn’t make their own arrival plan.  I have been having contractions and lots of downward pressure so I don’t think there will be any issues with baby coming on their own but you never know.  As much as I’m ready to meet our little one and be done with being pregnant I’m still being patient.  I can’t wait to find out if it’s a boy or girl though! 

~Pregnancy Week 33~

I can’t believe I’m already at week 33 of this pregnancy.  It felt like it took forever to get over the Week 24 mark and now it’s flying by!  I have one more week of work then my leave begins.  I am beyond ready! 

I have bi-weekly appointments with my Dr now and the latest appointment showed baby happily stowed head down and looking great.  We’ve had so many ultrasounds and tests throughout that I am starting to release some of the worry that something will be wrong with baby.  It’s weighed so heavily on my mind…its like waiting for the other shoe to drop.  I know I will love baby no matter what and we will adjust our life to make anything work but I so just want a healthy baby to bring home like most other people.  Anyhow we will see in a few weeks…

The last few weeks of the pregnancy have been fairly uneventful.  I am pretty uncomfortable right now, my pelvis feels like its splitting into pieces with every step.  I would compare it to feeling like you are getting kicked between the legs with every step.  It doesn’t help that I keep slipping on the ice…I did the splits this week, that was not fun!  It’s hard to get up from a low position now, my stomach muscles are non-existent now.  I’m starting to really show now although I saw my family Dr this week and he couldn’t tell I was pregnant, it was kind of funny and took me back to the first time I met him.  Of course I have the usual aches and pains that come along with pregnancy…my back, my knees…even though I’m already a bigger person the added weight does a number to my body.  I still haven’t gained much, I’m not exactly sure but possibly around 15lbs now.  I’m very happy about it as I really didn’t want to come out of the pregnancy with any added weight, I already have enough to get rid of, LOL! 

Ethan is all about the baby right now, he likes to tell people that there is a baby in Mommy’s tummy and it’s going to ‘pop’ out.  He’s very careful around baby and even came up the other day and planted a kiss on my tummy for the baby.  I’ve let him feel when the baby is kicking but so far I don’t think he gets that part of it.  Also he is very vocal on his choices for names…he does not like the boy name we’ve picked out.  I don’t even know if Randy and I have finalized the boy name yet if it is a boy, I need to talk to him about that one I guess :)  Ethan sways back and forth on his choice for boy or girl, overall he’s pretty excited about it all.  I do think we’re going to have problems with him accepting a change to his home environment though, he’s used to making as much noise as he wants and playing throughout the house.  I’ve started explaining to him that we need to be quiet when baby is sleeping and we’ve watched Calliou shows where he has to be quiet because Rosie is sleeping and have talked about it.

The Dr doesn’t think I’ll make it to full term, we’re hoping to make it into January at least.  My official due date is January 26th so if baby arrives early like Ethan we may have a New Years Eve baby.  Wouldn’t that be crazy!  I was told at work that if I have the first Canadian baby of the year that there are awesome gifts and perks etc that you get…I wouldn’t complain about that!  I just am hoping to clear Christmas so that I can have a separation between the holiday and baby’s birthday.  But time will tell!

Baby’s room is finally coming together.  Just yesterday Randy put the carpet and molding in.  Today I need to touch up paint the walls and around the closet frame.  The door needs to go on then we can set up all the furniture.  It’s all in the garage waiting, I can’t wait to get it unpacked and see how it looks.  Then I need to do some wall art etc and wait to find out if we are bringing home a boy or a girl to finalize the decor.  If it’s a girl there will be a flurry of shopping happening to make it a little girl room!  If it’s a little boy I already have the cutest nursery set.  Needless to say, pictures will come forth!

So follow us on the last leg of this pregnancy as we get ready to add another little one to our family to make it complete.  We’re in the final chapter of this year long journey to have a baby…I can’t wait to hold baby in my arms and get to know this little one bouncing inside of me!

~Summer Vacation at the Lake, Week 2 and onwards~

Week 2 at the lake was very laid back.  It was just Ethan and I from Tuesday to Friday hanging out until Randy came up for the weekend.  We mostly just played at the park, read books and played trains and enjoyed some peace and quiet.  I read something like 7 books on this vacation, it was AWESOME!!!

When we were home in GP for the weekend I picked up a little hibachi BBQ for the RV since our main one was missing parts that I couldn’t buy.  Of course it came unassembled…well armed with a butter knife and determination to have BBQ I assembled it myself on one of our first days back to camp.  I was so proud of myself, LOL!

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We came up every weekend for the rest of July and for our last night at the lake we were invited to a HUGE beach BBQ party down at our beach.  We were thrilled to be included!  It was an early celebration of the camp owner, Harold’s birthday.  They had slow cooked a giant prime rib all day and also had lamb chops and pork chops and tonnes of salads and sides.  Of course I was suffering from the worst case of pregnancy related I HATE ALL RED MEAT ever so I didn’t join in on the food.  The best part of the whole night for me was that Ethan made a fast friend, Ben, and they played ALL night!  I literally mean ALL night!  We had to pry them apart at midnight to go to bed.  The next morning they both were up for 8am and itching to play again…it was so cute!  They posed for some pictures for me, check out how cute they are!

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Randy and Harold also posed for some pictures!  Harold was our host for the whole month and is the owner of the the Marina.

This was a great summer vacation for our family.  Admittedly it was a bit hectic to go there every single weekend and I sure missed just being home but it forced us to go out and enjoy the summer and our family and not just sit around the house.  Or worse yet, renovate all summer!  Will we do it again next summer?  We’re not sure yet, if we do it won’t be to go ever single weekend, that was a bit much and quite exhausting.  We really liked the lake and the people, no question to that!  So we will see, life will be busier next year with a new little one joining the family in January…

I do know that I could get used to watching my little man and his soon to be sibling grow up from this view:

~Summer Vacation 2012–Week 1~

What a wonderful vacation we had this summer!  We made it to the LAKE!  We enjoyed a great visit with my best friend of almost 20 years, Melissa and her son Caleb for the first week.  It was a busy, active week and we crammed in a lot of activities.

We got to the campground on the Sunday night and got all settled in and had a campfire.  On Monday we went into the nearby town of Chetwynd and checked out the visitor centre, wood carvings and had lunch from a food truck called “Everybody Loves Raymond”.  The remainder of our day was filled with walking around the lake, playing at the park and relaxing at the campsite.

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On Tuesday we headed to Tumbler Ridge, the place of dinosaurs and waterfalls!  We ended up doing a 2km hike in the rain to see the dinosaur tracks…it was not fun for pregnant, out of shape me.  Ethan looked so cute putting his hands into the dinosaur prints in the creek bed!

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We stopped at Gwillim Lake on our way back to our lake…it was really nice and we took some pictures with the kids there.

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Melissa and the boys had evenings of playing catch while we were there.  We had stopped at Value Village in Grande Prairie before heading out and bought a ball glove for Melissa so she could play with Caleb.  While we were there I found one almost the perfect size for Ethan so I grabbed it for him.  Apparently my son is a natural at playing catch.  To my knowledge he has never worn a ball glove before.  He put it on and knew what to do like he was on old pro though!  These pictures don’t do justice to how cute he was playing catch with them!

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On Wednesday we headed to the WAC Bennett Dam.  Randy, Ethan and I had been the year before so we knew what to expect.  However we heard that the spillway was open and were so excited to see that!  It has only been open 9 times in the last almost 50 years and we were going to get to see it!  I was so excited!

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It’s hard to grasp how big that spill waterfall is from the pictures…it was enormous!  We ended up coming back up the following weekend to the dam with Randy just so he could see it…it truly was something to remember!

The week with Melissa and Caleb drew to a close on Thursday when they left to spend the night at our house in GP.  Caleb had to be in St Paul, AB on Friday for provincial soccer tournaments.  They decided to break their trip up as it was a long drive there.

After they left Ethan and I didn’t have a vehicle to tour anywhere…which I was very happy about!  I was tired out from all the running and just wanted to relax at the campsite.  So Ethan and I played in the lake, went to the play park, relaxed at the RV and just generally chilled out.  Randy came up on the weekend to join us and our friends Trudy, Wes and their daughter Sydney came on Saturday with Trudy’s parents. 

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On Sunday we headed home for Grande Prairie as we had to take Randy back to work on Monday.  We went via the Dam and through Fort St John so we could stop for some Vietnamese food at our favourite restaurant there.  It’s a beautiful drive with some very scenic river views on the way to Fort St John.  These pictures are from one of our favourite look out spots on the drive.  The day was kind of hazy but you get the idea…the canola crops are bright yellow and there are fields of wildflowers everywhere!

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Ethan and I stayed in Grande Prairie until Tuesday before heading back to the lake.  We relaxed on our last week…other than going to the pool we stayed close to the campsite and just played and read books.  I was happy to have read like 9 books in the two weeks!

Keep posted for Part 2 of our Vacation!

~Ethan’s 4th Birthday Party!~

What a fun day!  Curious Ethan had a blast at his Curious George party! I had lots of fun with this one…I bought the invites and thank you cards off or a great designer on Etsy…The Paper Giraffe Shop.  Loved them! 

I wanted to knock it out of the park and have some awesome decorations for his party so I bought a kit off another designer on Etsy…it was such a great deal and made the party decorations look awesome!

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We had Monkey Tails for lunch (Hot Dogs) with Monkey chips, Monkey Chow, Monkey Cake, Tutti Fruiti Tray, Veggies and Monkey Dip, and Monkey Juice.

We had the usual crowd invited this year…unfortunately Aimie and kids from Ethan’s daycare couldn’t make it.  We had Leanne and her boys, Wyatt and Morgan; Erin and Corbin, and new additions Trudy, Wes and Sydney.  It was a blast! 

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We had some fun games we played…Pin the butterfly on the log, Curious George coloring sheets, and of course a Monkey Piñata!  The kids had a blast and we enjoyed watching them play!

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Ethan got some great presents from his friends…he got an awesome slip and slide from Morgan and Wyatt, some beach toys from Corbin and a Thomas the train Mega Block set from his little buddy Sydney.  Grandma Grounds gave him a remote control helicopter.  We gave him a Curious George board game, a Curious George stuffy, a bike Helmet and kneepads, and a 3D Glow in the dark color thingy.  I can’t wait to play the board game…it won a Gold Award for best toy by 2 different groups!  We are going to have our first game tomorrow night!

It was such a great day, the best part was sharing it with friends!  We are so grateful to have such a great group to call our friends…Thanks to everyone. 

Well this was a super fun birthday…what to do next year???  Hmmm I already have my mind ticking!